You will know “when” you become aware. You can’t miss it. It’s the moment there is no need to question anything.I have to let you go, because you can’t come with me. What we are each about to go through, can only be done alone.
You have to accept that it’s OK to not be found. Acknowledgment is not necessary from others. Acceptance of being has no boundaries.
There is a point of realization where one knows that their personal values are second to Truth. That is acceptance.